Things I need to stop doing to gain peace in my life

Things I need to stop doing to gain peace in my life:

1. Pretend to be happy when I am not
2. Allowing negative people to steal my joy
3. To allow other people to control the direction of my life
4. Going along to get along
5. Allow anyone to disrespect me
6. Realis that I am not selfish when I take care of myself or protect myself from negativity
7. Discarding my boundaries to fit uncomfortably into other people's lives
8. Accepting and excusing toxic behavior because it is more comfortable than change
9. Wasting energy on one-sided relationships
10. Stop explaining myself. "NO" is a complete sentence
11. Stop allowing others to blame me for their short-comings or bad choices
12. Stop forgiving those that refuse to confess their wrongdoing and repent.
13. Abandoning myself, my integrity, my truth just to "fit in"
14. Stop being forced into discussions about topics I have repeatedly declined to discuss (politics and religion)
15. Allowing people to take advantage of my time and resources while they are being unproductive
16. Stop allowing people (especially family) to cross my boundaries